When we say we can’t do something, we abdicate our agency. We lose our ability to say yes or no.zachary spafford
When struggling with something as difficult as pornography, it can be easy to feel like you no longer have a choice in your actions. But coach Zachary Spafford says taking responsibility for your decisions can lead to a whole new perspective that helps in recovery. Creed and Crishelle talk with Zach about his own journey to recovery and how changing your thoughts makes the road easier.
In this episode:
- We have to have the capacity to choose.
- Own your agency.
- Agency is how we bring ourselves in alignment with God’s will.
- When we say we can’t do something, we abdicate our agency.
Zach and Darcy are coaches who have walked in their clients’ shoes. After many years struggling with pornography use in their home they were able to learn the skills, processes and techniques that allowed them to create the life and integrity they wanted around sex, sexual imagery, and intimacy. Their unique approach has helped countless individuals and couples move past the shame and hurt to move forward to the free, loving and worthy place they have been striving to be their whole lives.
Zach Spafford, Self Mastery Coach website
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